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Attachment style
How you build close relationships: how easily you get close, how you handle distance, and what happens in conflict.
1.I find it easy to get close to people and trust them
2.I am comfortable when a close person is busy with their own things
3.I can say plainly what I need in a relationship
4.After a quarrel I usually believe we will make up
5.I am comfortable both in closeness and in independence
6.I fear that a close person will stop loving me
7.I need frequent reassurance that things are fine
8.A delayed reply to a message makes me anxious
9.I think a lot about what my partner’s words and silences mean
10.I would give up a lot rather than lose the relationship
11.I find it hard to depend on anyone
12.When it gets too close I want to pull away
13.I prefer to solve problems myself without telling anyone
14.Conversations about feelings tire me out
15.It is easier for me to show care through action than words
16.I want closeness and fear it at the same time
17.Close relationships feel unsafe to me
18.I move close and then abruptly pull far away