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Compatibility: Libra and Aquarius
How well Libra and Aquarius go together: what works in the pair, where it strains, the dynamic between them and portraits of both — in either pairing of roles.
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Natural understanding with almost no effort. You recover next to each other rather than spend yourselves.
♂ ♎ Libra man + ♀ ♒ Aquarius woman
What works
Natural understanding with almost no effort. You recover next to each other rather than spend yourselves.
What to watch
The weakness is shared as well: two fires burn out together, two waters drown together. You need an outside stabiliser.
How the pair works
Libra man and Aquarius woman speak the same language and can talk all night. The relationship rests on interest and friendship. The risk is talking instead of deciding, and a lightness that hides a reluctance to discuss the hard things.
♂ Libra man
The Libra man is charming, well-mannered and talks to women in a way they remember. He rarely goes head-on: where another would push, he negotiates and gets the same result. He chooses slowly and separates even more slowly — leaving someone is agony for him, so he can drag out a relationship that ended long ago. He dislikes scenes and domestic coarseness, values beauty in his home and his partner, and notices the details of appearance. He is comfortable company, though a partner must get used to final decisions being postponed to the last.
♀ Aquarius woman
The Aquarius woman is independent and unpredictable: she breaks expectations easily and has no intention of living someone else’s script. She needs a partner who treats her as an equal and does not encroach on her circle or her projects. She is friendly with everyone, and a jealous man will have a hard time beside her — though she rarely gives cause. There is little sentimentality in her, but a rare ability to accept a person as they are without trying to remake them. She leaves calmly and finally if she senses her freedom being trimmed.
♀ ♎ Libra woman + ♂ ♒ Aquarius man
What works
Natural understanding with almost no effort. You recover next to each other rather than spend yourselves.
What to watch
The weakness is shared as well: two fires burn out together, two waters drown together. You need an outside stabiliser.
How the pair works
Libra woman and Aquarius man speak the same language and can talk all night. The relationship rests on interest and friendship. The risk is talking instead of deciding, and a lightness that hides a reluctance to discuss the hard things.
♀ Libra woman
The Libra woman can be pleasant to almost anyone and so often gathers more attention than she needs. Courtship, form and beautiful words matter to her — not from vanity, but because that is how she reads someone’s attitude. In a couple she seeks equality and partnership and copes badly with both dictatorship and a wholly passive partner. She tends to adapt and agree, then discovers she is living someone else’s life; hence her sudden and final departures. She is happiest with someone who asks her opinion and waits for the real answer.
♂ Aquarius man
The Aquarius man is friendly, unusual and keeps a distance even in close relationships — not from coldness, but because personal space is a condition of life for him. He courts unconventionally: instead of flowers, an idea, a conversation until dawn, a ticket to something strange. He needs a like-minded partner he can argue and be friends with; the role of hostess and ornament does not interest him. Jealousy and scenes repel him instantly, and being tied down by domesticity even faster. He is faithful while free, and often more dependable in friendship than in romantic declarations.